For a very long time I kept my feelings to myself...and finally
I felt I should share with you this: I feel very sad this time of
year.
I think a lot of us feel this way sometimes during the holidays.
I have difficulties every year at Christmas. I lost my dad a few
days before Christmas three years ago and I think Christmas
time is the hardest time of all to lose the people we love.
I miss you, dad...
But the other day I've got this encouraging email from a friend
of mine and can't tell you how uplifted I felt; hope this helps if
people are in a similar situation.
"...yes, it's sad when we lose loved ones but in honour of their
memory, they wouldn't want us to have difficulties, they would
want us to be filled with joy at all the happiness shared together.
When I'm only living in the memories of others, and when they
think of me I don't want them to experience pain; I want them
to experience a warm glow at shared memories of my zany-ness,
weird humour, how I enriched their lives by being a friend and
how they enriched mine.
So be cheerful and remember the best-always..." xx
Update: See you on Thursday.
(Photo by B.M.)